There are times we question the things that happen to us. I am guilty of this myself. I however, have been in practice for some years now that I not question.This shows
God that I have lost faith. I have come to believe that there is a reason for everything. Sometimes things do go bad. There is a lesson to be learned when this happens. There are times when things go well. Again there is a lesson in this as well. What we have to do is pray for discernment, which means; ask God for meaning. Just plain humble yourself. If bewilderment comes into play do not ask God "why"? Ask God to help you see through it. Ask God to show you what he wants you to know. On the other hand if you receive a blessing or blessings stay humble, give thanks and ask God to show you what he wants you to know.Ephesians 2:8-9 For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.