We are so accustomed to speaking negativity it seems to be comfortable. When someone speaks negativity to us it seems to be normal. I say to you today. Whoa! Stop! Take off that comfort zone. Do not let negativity be normal. God wants the very best for you. Turn that negativity around. Get out of the way of it. Put on you armor. Deflect it. Replace it with positivity. Speak victory. There is good that can come from trials and tribulation. It may not be your definition of "good". But in everything there is a lesson. To every battle there is victory.
1 Corinthians 10:13 No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.