Our lives are here for just a minute compared to relative time. We should make the very best of it. Science has proven the stars that we see in the heavens have burned up and are gone. We are actually looking at the life of a star shining billions of years ago. So we should as, mankind take into account the advantages that we have. There is nothing wrong with having a forgiving heart. There is nothing wrong with loving someone who may not have someone to love. Gods knowledge allows us freedom to make choices.The playbook on life was written over three thousand years ago. If we need reference by all means pick it up and read from it. Romans 8:37-39 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.