More often then not people are genuine. They are sympathetic,empathetic and morally capable of showing so. However, every now and then the enemy uses people to do otherwise. Be it smiling in your face and stabbing you in the back. Be it ugliness behind closed doors. Be it just being mean and envious. These types of people should be avoided. If you are in the position where you have no choice, (and this is very very important) do not fall into the trap with them. Get to your bible, your phone or a good friend that can bring you back to God. Because it is very easy to get caught up in some mess. And you will recognize that it is mess, if you walk away angry, sad or upset, and the person causing all of this is proceeding as if nothing happened or is about to happen. No! Matthew 16:23 Jesus turned and said to Peter, "Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the things of God, but the things of men."