In our day to day activities we make choices every minute it seems. Do I do this or that? Do I want this or do I want that? It does not matter where you are in the scheme of things you do have a choice. Now there are times and destiny's that have struggled far more then humanly possible. No doubt. You still have choices. They may not be the choice you want or put in different context. You may have to circumvent here or there to make a choice work for now, but you can build upon that. Unless you give up. And there are plenty who have. God does not want you to give up. He sent his son to suffer for man. That was his choice. Life may be rough yes. But do not give up. Live through Christ Jesus it is far better then going at it alone. John 14:6 Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.