Proverbs 21:2 Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, but the Lord weighs the hearts. This is the crux of it all. You may think what you do is right, that it is good, but does it come from the heart? God if anyone knows the truth. It reminds me of the richest man in the church making the grand entrance with the big dollars. To give to the church with a big smile of satisfaction. In his mind, he has done the right thing by all who see. However his heart isn't in it, he can really care less. It's a tax write off. Bottom line, if you do not give from a good place (your heart) why give at all? It is not necessary to be the showman or women. Not at all. It is the place from where you give, is the key. It could be the giving of a compliment, if it is sincere. It could be a dollar bus fare, if it is what you can do. It is very simple. Give from your heart. Do not have ill will. Show the love that God shows you.