Can we as human beings deal with the worldly things that happen to us as well as the spiritual things that happen to us? The answer is if you believe in God, yes you can. Where most have their downfall is when they don't believe with their hearts and souls. These people go through the motions. They make a feeble attempt to "show their unconditional love" but it is transparent they are no where near that. Those of us that try our very best to know both worlds and pray to God everyday for wisdom and guidance seem to be able to cope much better. The bible is full of stories where man has decided to go at it alone. It hurt God so, and God let them go out on their own. It was disastrous. We need God. We cannot live with out him.
So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your
God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my
righteous right hand