It is so simple yet so difficult for some, to realize that the heart is the place one's intention lies. If you truly love something or have passion for you will do it much better. When you speak with love in your heart, you speak kindly. Yes, we make mistakes, but our heart and our intention is seen by God. So make it good intention. Make it good from the heart. Matthew 12:33-37 Make a tree good and its fruit will be good. Make a tree bad and its fruit will be bad, for a tree is recognized by its fruit. You brood of vipers, how can you who are evil say anything good? For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him. An evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him. But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken. For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.