It is hard sometime to understand why there are people out there who give with conditions. Jesus gave of himself in the ultimate way. He died on the cross suffering for us(mankind). God gave his only son knowing that he will suffer and die for us (mankind). Both gave with out any conditions at all. When you give from your heart. There are no conditions. All though we as men and women sometimes do (attach conditions). When giving with conditions it forfeits the charity that is expected of a true person of God. When we give of our hearts it is to do so without conditions. What ever you give it will come back two fold.
Romans 5:8 But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.