The Lips of the wise disperse knowledge. But the heart of a fool does not do so.
Better is a dinner of herbs where love is, than a fatted calf with hatred.
In life haters are going to be haters no matter what. You can tell them watch out your going to get splashed by that car. They are so blinded by hate they would not heed the warning that you are giving them. Believe it or not if they moved or didn't move they are going to remain hating because of a hardened heart. You have to remember you did not make that heart hard. So do not accept responsibility for it. Deflect that responsibility and just pray for them. They need God. Then there is the hater that sucks you in. Come on over for dinner, we are having fillet Mignon, some Portabello mushrooms and the best wine this side of Napa Valley. The dinner is not from the heart. A hater is just that, a hater. They will boast and brag and talk about your shoes soon as you turn your back. Turn the dinner down, have some pizza and salad with some true friends who really love you. You cannot change a person. They are going to have to want to change. And that involves giving up self.