When we are growing into our young adult years we never really thought about getting older and how things would be for us. Some when looking back lead normal lives, if you want to call it that. They played sports, hung around the popular crowds. etc,etc. And then there were those who did understood that what is done on the inside will eventually show on the outside. It is nice to see someone after years who hadn't changed much. It is the opposite if you see someone who struggled and looks so much older then they should. In the spiritual word the same theory applies. If you understood from the beginning Gods expectations and you lived them out, it shows in the way you carry yourself. On the other hand if you have not lived a life with God in it you literally look and act like hell.
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.