Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through him who strengthens me.
To have that confidence takes courage and faith. God gives us that through the word. We cannot let our lives be run or dictated by anything that does not exuberant love. There is no question at all about that. It is difficult, yes life that is. However to have the breath in your body to rise, to have your physical strength. To have your wits. All should be valued. Be gracious and thankful. By showing God that you love him and he you. Get up when knocked down, dust yourself off and start all over again. It is okay to do so.