The enemy can come at you obtusely, subtly, or just plain nasty and out there. It is up to us to know the signs. Take what ever hint there is if there is one and get God right on it. Some may dismiss them (the signs). It usually becomes a full blown attack from someone close to you. That is the worst kind of attack. Then it (evil) catches you when you are tired and have so many things on your plate. The final blow is bringing up the past. Attacking you with your inner demons. That is the ultimate low. The saving grace through all of this is GOD. Get yourself in a room, on a beach, away from it all. Think hard. Know that God does not bring on confusion. God does not use the past against you. And God takes you from glory to glory. Cast this and all feelings, words exchanged, hurt, anger right back at EVIL.
Ephesians 6:12 For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.